Shared Parenting, Fatherhood, and Family Court Reform with Mark Ludwig

In this episode of I Am Dad Podcast, host Kenneth Braswell interviews Mark Ludwig, President of the National Council on Equal Shared Parenting, during the Shared Parenting Summit in Washington, D.C. Mark shares the deeply personal story that brought him into this work: a custody experience that left him separated from his son for 204 days and forced him to confront the emotional reality many fathers face when trying to remain present in their children’s lives. What began as one father’s fight became a national mission to educate policymakers, build coalitions, support parents, and advance shared parenting reform across the country. Kenneth and Mark explore the evolution of the fatherhood and shared parenting movement, including the challenges of moving beyond anger, trauma, and old “father’s rights” narratives toward mature, strategic, policy-focused advocacy. They discuss how legislative change requires relationships, trust, language, credibility, and the ability to meet lawmakers where they are. The conversation also touches on: • Mark’s personal custody journey and why he wrote letters to his son every night • The importance of protecting children from feeling unwanted or abandoned • How the shared parenting movement has matured over time • Why advocacy must be strategic, not reactive • The role of women, veterans, military families, child welfare, child support, and domestic violence voices in shared parenting conversations • Why child support and Title IV-D reform are central to the shared parenting debate • How federal funding structures influence family court systems • The importance of training advocates to work effectively with legislators • Mark’s book, The Parental Alienation Playbook • Kenneth’s emerging concept of Co-Parenting Maturity • Why responsible fatherhood and shared parenting advocates must collaborate This episode is not simply about custody. It is about children, systems, family stability, and the urgent need to create policies that do not force parents into unnecessary conflict. At the center of the conversation is a shared belief: fathers should not have to prove that they matter after the fact. Systems should begin with the understanding that children need meaningful relationships with both parents whenever it is safe and appropriate.

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